2011/03/14

OK Paris, I'm Giving You A Second Chance!

Please please please.. Do not let me down this time!

I didn't sketch that Eiffel tower

Three years ago I went to Paris and I was practically underwhelmed. Pardon me, but who in the world didn't have high expectations when you were visiting one of the greatest cities?

To be fair, I chose the worst time possible. Paris in her early-May was always wet and gloomy. I was four days in Paris; And the only day that didn't rain, was the last day when I rushed to the airport to catch my morning flight. In the end, I refuse to believe the fact that Parisians have ever experienced a sunny day.

To make the timing worse, the other two days on my trip were labor-days holiday. Yes, the two days in the whole year when the shops, museums, or nearly everything were closed.

The streets were full of protesters and I got this nervous feeling that the demonstration would anytime turned violent. Oh yeah.. The other things that filled the streets? Homeless and garbage. Because you know, when the garbage collectors joined the demonstrations, no one else was picking up those big trash piles. I took one rather ironic photo of a tourists couple, who were coming out from Metro stations with its iconic Art Nouveau Metropolitain gate, looked disgusted by the stinking display of 2 meter-high pile of trash outside. The third person on the photo (probably a Parisian), just walked nonchalantly.

In addition to those unfortunate events, I had a few minor incidents here and there, showing how true the common (mis)conception could be: Parisians can be so blatantly rude to non-French-speaking. So yes, I didn't have a good time on my first visit to this majestic city. I also didn't have a good story to tell. It was all just a big "meh".

Anyway this time, I'm giving Paris a second chance. The weather would be so much better. I'm gonna travel in a big group, where one of us is a native Parisian. I'm also planning to meet some old friends. And I've been feeding myself with information about Paris' historical and architectural attractions. I'm excited. I feel that I'm ready to fall in love with Paris.

At least for now, the WeatherPro app is promising me some fine Paris sky.

The only downside of the trip is that I will miss my son's half-year birthday. I'm sure I'm gonna miss the little guy so bad.

2011/03/07

A Different Thing Everyday In A Month

Office's server was down this morning. So, like any other bored colleagues, I browsed Internet. Wait, I actually don't need a reason to browse Internet, just the offline server made it feel more justified, he he.

I stumbled across this simple but neat blog. The story was: the author felt wearied and people in the Internet suggested him to do something 'different' everyday of the whole month. That, my friends, was one of the most awesome suggestions you can expected by asking random strangers in the Internet. So he ended up doing many things new, things that would repulse him, or just things that he hadn't do for a long time.



Some interesting examples:
  • Free boxing lesson
  • Went to a shooting range
  • Paid a panhandler $100 to have lunch with and tell the author his story
  • Volunteered in food bank
  • Went to a Tea Party meeting
  • Went to a mosque
  • Saw a friend perform brain surgery on a mouse and implant lasers in its head.
I found this inspiring. Perhaps, I might do something similar when I'd feel down.

2011/03/03

Happy Fat Thusday!

Yes, such day exists! In coincide with Carnival, today is the day to get yourself stuffed! Yeah!

And in Slovenia, the tradition is to eat Krof. It's loosely translated to doughnut. However, saying Krof is a doughnut is like saying Bratwurst a sausage. It's not wrong, but you have to be more specific than that.


Two oversized Krof from Trojane

2011/02/14

The Best Way You Can Do As Parents

I just stumbled to a very thoughtful post online. I think everyone should read it.

I think that the best you can do as parents is to instill CORE values like being respectful, compassionate, truthful, curious, empathic, etc and hope that NO MATTER WHAT decisions they make for themselves that you don't agree with, they will exhibit those values within their new belief framework.

I believe that this shall applies to everyone no matter what religions, beliefs, social economic status, or education level you have! If you want to make the world a better place, start within your family and children.

Read more of the original post here.

2011/02/11

Dreaming A Dream

So I was having a dinner in a fancy apartment with some very nice people. There were five of us and we were sitting on the big glass table, enjoying very good wine. I sat next to my wife. I didn't know the other three persons.

The friendly lady, who looked in her mid forties, was the host of the dinner. The apartment was hers. Very clean one I must say, something you might see in those interior design magazines. Every thing in that apartment looked shiny and too fragile to be touched.

Living single, childless, and having a top-paying job made all these possible. It's not so hard for her to pampered the guests. It was probably safe to assumed that hosting dinner and making her guests impressed were among a few things in the world that kept her entertained. She dressed herself very well, too. And behind her make-up, you can see a face that once bloomed in her younger years.

The other two persons were a couple. They're younger than the lady host. Both of them were the quite type and mostly shy, but several times in the evening the man broke the ice with some jokes. Maybe they were like me, overwhelmed by the place, the food, the drink or just about everything in the dinner. Most of the time we let the lady host did the talking.

Then suddenly it struck me. I remember the couple! They were on my dream on the previous night. Now, how that possible? I never seen them before the dinner!

So for the first time in the evening, I let myself loose. I started to tell everyone about the dream, thus setting the table attention to me. I began with so much enthusiasm. Because for me, the dream was so fun and absurd that I must share it.

I tried to explain them the dream's context. It was a hard task because I usually never remember my dreams. I recalled a cold winter day. It was on a place that seemed like an exterior of a huge TV studio. I was waiting for an acquittance, who was inside working.

After probably half an hour, he came out from the building to see me. He wasn't alone, he came with someone else. A girl. A girl that looked extremely familiar. The second I finally recognized her, I tried so hard to contained my excitement. But hey, I'm no actor and probably did a terrible job hiding it. The girl was no other than Tina Maze. Who?

This Tina Maze

Surprisingly, I had no problem explaining to them why Tina Maze was on my dream. Maybe unconsciously I'm a big fan and just realized it on my dream. She WAS a great alpine skier anyway, no doubt about that. She was an Olympic medalist, and beloved by the country. Plus, she was often on TV and commercials.

The guy introduced me to Tina Maze, who turned out to be a very nice person. We were talking a bit and then decided to go skiing. No surprise.

A few hours later, me, my wife, Tina and that guy were already in the mountain. There were some small ski resorts with their own ski slopes. The weather was remarkably nice, a few clouds here and there, but mostly sunny and the ground was all covered with snow. I tried skiing first, but after an hour, I decided to go hiking instead. The others continued skiing.

After sunset, we spent the evening at a cabin. We were sitting together near the fireplace, talking about the day. I couldn't remember much at this point, but I was aware that the same couple, who were in the dinner, were there with us in the cabin! That was insane! I didn't remember how they came there at the first place. I haven't never see them before and they were already in my dream!

The dream quickly ended as my baby boy's cry woke me up. That also concluded my story. The couple looked somewhat baffled, yet not so fascinated in figuring out why they were in my dream. They just accepted that these kind of things just happened. Inexplainable. We continued the dinner by opening another bottle of wine.

But suddenly something more absurd happened...


I heard my baby boy crying and I woke up! It took me a few seconds to realized that everything was just a dream! The dinner was a dream! The couple, the lady host, the fancy apartment; Everything was in a dream! And... Tina Maze was a dream WITHIN a dream!!




There was another weird thing. I could swear that in my dream's dream, I felt one whole day was gone. From the meeting with Tina Maze, until the evening at the cabin. Even tough I couldn't recall every single thing and a lot of things were blurred, I could somewhat grasped the length of the time; it felt like one-day long! But when I looked at the clock next to my bed, I only slept no more than one hour and a half.

I thanked Inception for helping to realize that my dream was.. interesting.


DISCLAIMER: Based on true event. However, many details were recreated since I couldn't recall every single thing in my dream.

Pardon The Wait

Sorry for the long pause. I haven't update for a while now. It's not like I'm busy, but between watching Egypt protests and taking care of my son, I've been mostly lazy. No other excuse needed!

Actually, I did write some drafts, which were quite long. However, I didn't managed to finished or published any. Also, the weather has been so nice. So, I rather be outside with my kid. Yes, this is so unlike me. In other words, the weather is THAT nice! Wait a minute, I'm writing another excuse! Nevermind that. And for the meantime, enjoy a joke stolen from the Internet.


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THE PERFECT HUSBAND


Several men are in the locker room of a golf club when a cellular phone on a bench rings and a man engages the hands-free speaker function and begins to talk. Everyone else in the room stops to listen.

MAN: "Hello!"

WOMAN: "Hi Honey, it's me. Are you at the club?"

MAN: "Yes."

WOMAN: "I'm at the shops now and found this beautiful leather coat. It's only $2,000; is it OK if I buy it?"

MAN: "Sure, go ahead if you like it that much."

WOMAN: "I also stopped by the Lexus dealership and saw the new models. I saw one I really liked."

MAN: "How much?"

WOMAN: "$90,000."

MAN: "OK, but for that price I want it with all the options."

WOMAN: "Great! Oh, and one more thing. I was just talking to Janie and found out that the house I wanted last year is back on the market. They're asking $980,000 for it."

MAN: "Well, then go ahead and make an offer of $900,000. They'll probably take it. If not, we can go the extra eighty-thousand if it's what you really want."

WOMAN: "OK. I'll see you later! I love you so much!"

MAN: "Bye! I love you, too."

The man hangs up. The other men in the locker room are staring at him in astonishment, mouths wide open.

He turns and asks, "Anyone know whose phone this is?"

2011/01/20

I Want A Free iPad!


That's it! I'm sold! I want a free iPad and a 500-Gb internet storage! I'm dedication today's blog post for spamming everyone to join SugarSync. They're pretty neat actually. Among their competitions (Dropbox -- the most popular), I like SugarSync integration the best. They also have a neat iPhone app.

So, I think it's worth a try! Click here to join and you can also refer to others and win an iPad!

2011/01/19

Sometimes I Wished I'm An European

Yes, I admit that I wish I'm not just someone who comes from a poor, terrorists-laden and corrupt third world country. Wait! Before you refute my statement, let me put a sarcasm tag for you. I'm proud to be Indonesian actually.

Just sometimes I wished I'm an European for a very specific reason. Which one? No, I don't envy Europe's cultural heritage, my home country has arguably more expansive and varied culture than any European nations. Maybe the economy? Are you joking or haven't read news lately? Euro has been sinking down, thanks to greedy countries getting into debts they cannot afford. So for what reason then? For the sake of bureaucracy that's what!

Today, I'm applying for Permanent Residence in Slovenia. One of the documents I need to provide is a letter that shows I never have problem with the law. If I'm a citizen of an EU country, I don't need this paper. This document sounds harmless and easy to get, right? Not exactly. Below is my story.

Go ahead, click the image to enlarge and rage with me!

(TL;DR bureaucracy sucks!)
So to get this paper, first I need to obtain a letter from Ketua RT (loosely translated to Neighborhood Chairman) that I had never made a crime. That's funny since I haven't been living in the address (of my parent's) for more than 10 years. It's simply because it's the address that is shown on my passport. After that, I need to go to Kelurahan (something like a smaller Town Hall) to verify and get it official. This paper is one of the requirement to apply the "criminal record" in Polres (District Police if I might say). The other requirements are supplying fingerprints and dozens of 'latest' photograph. I had to run to the nearest photo studio because I got the photograph size all wrong and reprint them again. (to be continued)

2011/01/18

Do You Have A Million Dollar to Spend On..

.. revealing one's identity? Well, he's not just a random mysterious figure. He's Banksy, THE Banksy.

For many, he's the real-life Bruce Wayne. But instead of catching petty criminals, he vandalizes. His graffiti inspired others. His messages are clear and never subtle. Among his many works, one Simpsons episode opening and these graffiti in Israeli borders are my personal favorites. I wish I will be able to see them one day before they got removed.

A man claims to know the true identity of Banksy and can prove it to you. But it doesn't come cheap. Go to this eBay auction and bid if you have that much money to burn. Bids close tomorrow.

Good luck and I hope it's worth it!
PS. I'm 95% sure the auction is a joke.

2011/01/15

Eighty Minutes Went Too Damn Fast When You're in Paradise

Last time I had a traditional Thai massage was in Ram Butri. And I had one in every single evening I was in Bangkok. Well of course once a day! A 60-minute full body massage costed only 220 baht or around €5. After that, Thai massage had been a luxury I cannot afford.

Well, not until my colleagues got me a voucher for my birthday. Not only that, it's on Sense Wellness Club Ljubljana, which is probably one of the hippest places to have one today. And damn, that place is awesome! The massage itself was awesome! Thank you my colleagues! I almost missed the voucher's expiration date when I went today. Hehehehe.

Other than various massages, they have other offers too. I definitely gonna try their sauna and jacuzzi someday!

And like other Asian-themed places in Slovenia, they seem have problem differentiating between Buddhism and Hinduism. So long as mix-matching decorations look nice, right?


PS. A little announcement here. As you might have already realized, I haven't been uploading any photos lately for Photo A Day project. I gave it up entirely. They should have wrote that the project is not suitable for young parents that barely have enough time for themselves, let alone hunting photos everyday.

2011/01/06

Angry Birds

It turns out that this Photo A Day is too hard for me to carry on. I'm in a brink of giving up. I simply don't have time and energy to shot photos each day. Well, to my defense, today I did take several shots, half emptied the film in my Holga. However, you can not just download the result and upload it to the internet. Someone need to develop the 120 film, then scan the photos first. The fact of only a few number of photo studio available for developing 120 films, doesn't help at all. Then again it's the weather. The clouds are making this -- wait a minute, this is my blog! I can do whatever I want! Why do I whine and make up some excuse on the first place!? Hah!

For all the mysterious dead birds, fish and crabs all around the world, here's a photo of flock of pigeons, before they ambushed me in Munich last year.

Last year? For real I didn't take this Photo A Day thingy seriously!

2011/01/05

Another Day

Another day passed without taking a single photo. Another chance to put a cross-processed photo from my photo library. Why? Because I love cross-process.

But this wasn't me.

Trains have been an important part of my life. Every day I run catching one for getting to work. If I miss it, I need to wait approximately one hour for the next one. It's just one of the main disadvantage of living in a small country.

Another news is that I will start to experiment with an Holga tomorrow. I got one from my Secret Santa a few weeks ago and have been waiting forever to try it. It's gonna be nice to shot with 120 film again.

Bedtime Reads

Yeah, I want to do this

Yesterday, I asked reddit what are their favorite bedtime children books. I want to read and introduce English to my son. So, here's a compilation of their recommendations:




Among other books, are non-children; e.g. Hitchhiker Guide to The Galaxy, Lord of The Rings, The Hobbit -- it actually doesn't matter since a 4-month old baby wouldn't understand a word you read him. But to note that you yourself should enjoy reading him the books, pick the books that you might find interesting. Remember that if you're bored and unhappy, he could sense it.

Let me know if you know any other interesting books. Thank you!


EDIT: More recommendations!

Meet Mister Splashy Pants Jr.!


We got him last month. He's now swimming lazily everyday and sharing the aquarium space with Gustav Miroslav and Deborah Watson.

Disclaimer: I just made up the names. But since they don't have names yet, so why not?

2011/01/03

The New Old

The tiny Slovenian capital, Ljubljana, had once an intimate relationship with trams. But then the evil automobiles took control, and the city had to abandon its tram system. Unsurprisingly, traffic congestion ensued. Such a shame for a city of its size. Fortunately, there are plans in the future to reintroduce the trams. I really hope that someday the trams would claim its former glory.

Today, laying innocently outside the city center, a former tram car functions as a pizzeria and fast food diner. I never had the chance to try it, even though I pass this every single day on my way to work.

2011/01/02

I Love X-Pro

I have to admit that I got myself into Lomography. But I can never follow their Ten Golden Rule; I always compose and take my time configuring the camera before I shot. I just don't like to waste film. Especially, if it's a slide film. Why? Because I love to cross-process (X-pro) the films.


Another thing I have to admit, I didn't take above photo today. I didn't go out of my flat. It's new year's weekend --the laziest weekend of the whole year.

2011/01/01

Beginning of 365


Just one hour after the year changed, I declare that the "Photo A Day" project begin! Happy new year!